”You’re blessed when you can show people how to cooperate instead of compete or fight. That’s when you discover who you really are, and your place in God’s family.” ~ Matthew 5:9 (The Message)
Have you ever been offended? Had your feelings hurt? Felt wronged? If you haven’t, don’t think you’re exempt from such situations. Everyone experiences disappointments, hurts, betrayals, etc. at some point in life. How we deal with those situations, however, determines whether we become “bitter” or “better”. So, how do you react when you’ve been hurt or disappointed? Do you “strike back”, attempting to inflict as much pain on your offender as he/she gave you? Do you withdraw and simply allow the relationship to fade away? Or do you “rise above” your feelings and reach out to ensure restoration to the relationship in jeopardy?
I laugh as I write this because so many times in my life when I’VE been offended, disappointed, hurt, or even betrayed, God has required ME to be the one who reaches out to those who’ve hurt me and be the peacemaker. I must say, this doesn’t always seem “fair” or even “just”. However, when God requires something of us, we must respond with obedience. Recently, I was having a conversation with the Lord and – quite honestly – complaining about being the one who “always tries to fix things”. I reminded Him that I also have feelings and that it would be really nice if “every now and then” someone came to ME to apologize or attempt to make peace where there may be misunderstanding. I noted that I didn’t want to be disobedient but…..
As God always does with me, He quickly responded to my complaints with His Word, ”Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called the Sons [daughters] of God” (Matthew 5:9). When God said that to me, I started laughing and said, “Thanks, Lord! I still don’t like it, but I’ll be obedient!”.
You see, we don’t always have to like God’s instructions; but we should always obey them.
My question to you today is this: “Are you a wavemaker or a peacemaker?”
Peacemakers are willing to reach out – even when they are the ones who have been wronged or offended. Peacemakers understand that it’s not about them and their feelings, it’s about God and His commandments. Wavemakers refuse to reach out, refuse to apologize, justify their actions, and walk in pride.
We cannot control how others behave. We can, however, control our own emotions and responses to the Word of God.
I Thessalonians 5:15 says, “See that no one renders evil for evil to anyone, but always pursue what is good both for yourselves and for all.” Romans 12:18,21 says, “If it is possible, as much as depends on YOU, live peaceably with all men….Do not be overcome by evil but overcome evil with good”. (emphasis added)
I encourage you today to walk in peace, not pride. Remember, a spirit of peace urges you to reach out and “right” relationships; but a spirit of pride demands that you justify your own actions and refuse to walk in obedience to the Word of God.
Trust me, you’ll feel better about YOU, if you seek peace – even if it’s not reciprocated. SHALOM!
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